Each of us has spiritual gifts. This is a clear woven thread of the God Story (1 Peter 4:7-11). The gifts differ and even the 20 or so which are listed have an extensive number of multiplied effects. This is part of the beauty of being made in the image of God – and of experiencing the presence of the Spirit in our lives.
One of my favorite one another couples each use their gifts in distinct and overlapping ways. Together they practice what Paul termed being fellow-workers in the Kingdom. They activate their gifts to help others experience relational impact upon others. A few months ago they jotted down some thoughts about what helps bring about relational access to others. I think you will enjoy it/click here to access!