Here are three key qualities that can take us far in our quest to be above reproach (not get a handle on a flaw in our character).
Being Temperate could be the term measured.
Not quick-tempered basically means to not fly off the handle.
Not self-willed filters what we want through the grid of what is best for others. If we are self-willed we are vulnerable to pride – the opposite of healthy humility.
Here is a pdf of the qualities.
Moses said of himself he was the most humble man on the face of the earth. Nice. But then, he actually was at the time. – Dave & Burnadette